Because "You" is Important Always running behind your loved ones, friends or anyone you care about sucks at times! You need not to follow'em up because you're not responsible for their issues and you better get this. If someone wants space just fucking give them. Instead of caring them you should better "Care for your pretty mind- mood" & do your damn thing 😉 The more you care for anyone they'll end up in messing with your head and emotions that will ultimately affect your behavior which is not supposed to happen. So better leave them until they need you. Being selfish is actually great if you're having such people around. It's your life and every second is important, it's preferable not to waste a single minute on them. "Do something that helps you in being BETTER YOU"
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