Don't Chase People, Be Yourself

Stay Single and love yourself

Whenever you meet someone or talk to someone , instead of telling them about your issues and problems at least ask them if they're okay or not!!! Because might be they're also in some pain but can't express to anyone due to fear of being judged wrong! They can drank to drown their pain, but the pain learned how to swim. Please ask them ~

How they are?

How they've been holding up?

Are they really okay!?

As we are living in a world where people are ghosted more than they get texted. And these people are intelligent, creative , talented who've all experienced ghosting. If you've ever being ghosted, remember it's not a reflection of you. It is so important that we don't lead people on . It's so important that we don't make people believe that we like them or even love them if we don't. It's so dangerous to play with someone's emotions because you have no idea the damage you're causing. And don't be with someone just because you feel alone for a period of time. Don't just be with someone to fill in your gaps. Just imagine what that would feel like if someone did that to you!!! Don't let people get attached and drop them like they don't even matter.

DON'T TALK TO SOMEONE JUST BECAUSE THEY MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER ABOUT YOURSELF.

For a little  bit of time but don't feel the same way. And remember, someone's disappearance doesn't affect your worth, it reflects their priorities. When someone disappears, don't let them reappear just because they feel like it.

Never chase 2 things and that's true love and true friends. People make time for who they want to make time for. They text and reply to people they want to talk to. When someone tells you  they're too busy continuously, believe them. Don't try to convince them otherwise, don't try to force them to make time for you. Because if they want to.. they will for sure. It hurts, but you can't force someone to have feelings for you. You shouldn't have to beg someone to talk to you and to put you first. If they wanted to, they would.

Don't let people become priority in your life when all you are to them is an OPTION. Don't try to hold on someone who is trying to let go of you and never beg someone to stay when all they want to do is leave. Instead, "Hold open the door for them." You can never convince someone to love you or chase you like you chased them!!! And notice, there's someone probably chasing you while you're chasing someone whose chasing someone else. Dude it's a full loop.

The most amazing thing is when someone cheats on you it reflects so much of who they are and NOT SO MUCH OF WHO YOU ARE.