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LOVE YOURSELF

"Some people will always spin your words to suit their manufactured anger Don't get sucked in. Sometimes you have to step away and let them sort out the chaos they have created"  
  
I guess everybody love someone at a point of time in his/her lifetime, but very few of them is long lasting and the rest is very well known to us. These days having a girlfriend or boyfriend is just a part of the trend. Temporary caring nature towards opposite sex is damn common with no permanent stay in life. Actually today “Love has an expiry date” same as medicines but the later atleast cure our illness!!
Mostly, heartbreaks are happening just because of this stupid trend meanwhile trust is just a word now, they are found of each other’s flaws. This sick mentality of youngsters has created a bunch of problems in their own life like getting drug addicted and the most important judging others because of previous experience.
Does crying all night long, being alone-depressed-anxious-anorexic-sleepless, not having food, getting drunk- high on weed, refraining yourself from daily activities will help you out anyway??? The answer is “NO”. You don’t need to hurt yourself for a “temporary fake love”. College life plays an important role in this context as it has been seen that this is the home of breakups. I think this will give you a clear vision :-
      
You just gotta get back up after all it’s your life. Why to be sad for having no lover. Look around, the world population 7,584,145,542 just in case someone’s acting irreplaceable. Live your life the way you want, don’t need to change yourself for a boy/girl.

Love doesn’t merely mean
  • ·        having a gf/bf,
  • ·        saying I love you for fuckin 100 times or even more
  • ·        getting intimated
  • ·        giving explanation for every single step taken 
  • ·        24*7 on text
  • ·        Talking all night long

 Doing things which makes you happy should be your 1st priority rather than begging for someone’s attention & fake love. This is beautifully explained by Mr. Amari Soul as ~
“Whatever you do, never chase a man. Why???
Because it’ll make him emotionally lazy
and he will feel like he doesn’t have to do
anything to meet your emotional needs.”

So before loving someone else, primarily love yourself, value your needs, comfort and emotions. And sometimes it’s not necessary to say I love you, one could be happy by seeing his/her crush silently as love is something that needs to be felt not just said!

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you Strength
While loving someone deeply gives you courage”

Having true love by your side is the one of the greatest achievement meanwhile leaving fake people at the right time is the 2nd. That’s why
“Vibrate so high
that toxic people
in your life fall back
because they no longer know
how to approach you”




In the end all I want you follow the words of the famous scientist ~ Sir Albert Einstein
“If you want to live
a happy life,
tie it to GOAL.
Not to PEOPLE or THINGS”

Location: Jalandhar, Punjab, India

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