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Leaving a narcissist

 "Every psychopath is narcissistic but not every narcissistic is a psychopath." There is a key difference, a narcissist is somebody who lacks empathy, is grandiose, is entitled, is constantly seeking validation, is arrogant. It's a disorder of self esteem and they have trouble regulating their self esteem. What it's like to split up with a Narcissist  Leaving any relationship is difficult but leaving a narcissistic relationship seems to be harder. Many times people leave narcissistic relationships from a place of frustration, exasperation, fear, confusion. In a narcissistic relationship, by the time you get to the breakup point there have been lies, deceit, anger, rage all kinds of negative situations and it's confusing. Now, a couple of other things happen too. Many times when people leave a narcissistic relationship, they've tried everything. They've tried to change the person, which obviously never gonna work but they keep trying. One of the big fears t

Signs of a Pathological Liar

 Signs of a Pathological Liar I am so glad you're here. Today I want to talk about lying and give you some more insights into this whole being lied to business which is very unsettling and absolutely wrong on every level. Pathological liars trade into pathological lies and we can use a specific term "Hi Jackals" are people who hijack relationships for their own purposes and then relentlessly scavenge them for power, status and control and they lie they lie like a carpet. Pathological lies are different from those white lies which are relatively harmless and they don't come from malicious intent and they are frequent and each time it happens it causes your mind to melt a little bit like what? Really?? that doesn't make any sense but maybe you really want to believe. So you allow yourself to go down that pathway or maybe you're exhausted from not believing  and you just roll your eyes mentally and go there, they go again but those lies are frequent and then you